All for a man

Ain't love grand? Yes... when it's love. When it's all the other fighting, positioning and TRYING to have a relationship it can be draining and cause you to be someone you are not supposed to be. When you are essentially fighting over a man, it makes him look so important and you and the other women in the fight look insecure.

I'm not a feminist. I believe in relationships and I mean, in theory, you SHOULD be willing to fight for yours. The catch there is that if you have a real one, there is no fight. He is yours. You are his. If he is committed to you there is no worrying about another woman because there is no other woman. That is what commitment means. We are together. With that said, we all know there are no perfect relationships and it takes time to grow together sometimes. Sometimes your relationship is not yet exclusive and you are worried he will pick another woman over you. If he does, let him. What is meant for you can't be had by another. There is a purpose on this earth for you and if it includes the love of another, you will have it. You will have him imperfections and all because you are meant to be.